Long distance relationships and dating occur when two
people live far apart from each other and are unable
to see each other but on holidays, weekends, or on
vacation.
Long distance dating can be very difficult for some
relationships if the people want to be together more
often. Some people enjoy long distance relationships
because it gives them the time apart from each other
to fully appreciate each other when they are able to
be together.
Some long-distance dating may not last a long because
they are too difficult or one of the people in the
relationship may end up moving closer so they can be
together.
When couples experience long distance dating they are
usually able to see each other on the weekends if the
distance isn’t too far apart.
If the couple is too far away to be able to see each
other on the weekends then they will use their
vacation time from work and see each other on the
holidays. Whenever they can get the time available
they will see each other.
Many people take advantage of airline miles and earn
free tickets to fly and see their significant other
when they are long-distance dating.
The couples are able to communicate by phone, email,
and other methods, but they can only see each other
when one of them are capable of traveling.
Long-distance dating can be difficult for some people
if they find they want to see more of the other person
and the distance is just too far.
However, it can be good for a relationship to have the
time apart because when they do see each other the two
are extremely happy to be together and they don’t take
each other’s time for granted.
Women in search for a knight in shining armor in real life
dating should not lower her standards while searching
online.
She should keep her dream of having a prince charming to
the rescue. But having big dreams does not mean being too
selective.
Women should be selective but they should not limit their
options exactly to their ideal man. Limiting your options
will decrease the possibility of having a good catch.
Create an interesting profile. This is one way to attract
your prince charming. The content of your profile should be
honest and true if you are looking for someone who’ll be
you’re partner for a long and intimate relationship.
Thus, put something on your profile that can make a good
first impression. This impression should also last a
lifetime. Keep in mind to upload a photo with your most
attractive smile.
Avoid overly sexual photos – upload sexy photos, but limit
it to PG13 viewing.
Let’s include your safety. Make sure your common sense is
working well. Do not give your personal home address to
your online date. If you plan to meet up somewhere, have
someone to accompany you or know about your plans.
If uneasiness is felt while being with your date, you have
the right to stop and cut all contact off between the both
of you. It is better to be safe than sorry.
Online dating is a rapidly growing activity. Better hurry
and carry on these tips to start your wonderful search for
your partner.
Most dating problems occur because either the two of
you are not compatible or you are not communicating
enough. Other problems may be because the two of you
just are not right for each other.
Communication is the most important thing when you are
dating. Most problems occur because the two of you are
having difficulty expressing your feelings or you
aren’t being clear about what you want.
When you both communicate with each other properly it
is clear to both of you if you are compatible and have
the same likes and dislikes.
You cannot force a relationship if the two of you are
too different or you have different goals for the
relationship.
It is important to communicate about what you need and
want from your relationship so you both are satisfied
and you are not having disagreements about things.
Another thing that can cause problems with dating is
if the two of you are not compatible. Communicating
properly will tell you if you are or not.
Compatibility can be difficult if one person in the
relationship is needier than the other person. If one
of the people wants their space and the other is very
needy then it can make it difficult for dating.
Dating problems occur when communication skills are
not up to par. You have to be comfortable with the
person you are with so you can talk to them.
Being comfortable and being able to communicate will
show you how compatible the two of you are. If you
don’t have these two things then you might just
consider a good friendship.
The way to get what you want through the Law of
Attraction is learning to control your thought
process. Negative thoughts produce as much energy as
positive thoughts.
Thinking about your fears and saying “I don’t want
that” is probably going to result in your fears being
realized. Cosmic energy is literal. It doesn’t
understand “I don’t want”.
It produces results based on energy. So if you’re
producing more negative energy than positive, your
results are going to be negative.
Training your mind to concentrate on the positive
instead of the negative is a necessary, but often
difficult process. People are worriers.
It’s a survival thing designed to help us remember and
avoid the dangers of life. But being aware of our
fears and letting them control our thoughts are two
different things. Turning the negative fears into
positive thoughts is the key.
Your thoughts are yours. They can be your faithful
servants or your masters. Which ever you allow them to
be. You have the control, you make your choice. You
determine which course your thoughts take.
Learning to control your thoughts can be done by
learning to control your will. By mastering yourself.
Phrases like “I am master of my self” can lead you in
the right direction.
Repeating these or similar words, and believing them,
will make them real. When confronted with fears and
doubts, remembering to “master” your thoughts keeps
the positive energy flowing. Leaving no room for the
negative energy to manifest..
It’s a scientifically proven fact that mankind uses
only about 6% of our brains. Albert Einstein
supposedly used 10% of his. That leaves an awful lot
of untapped brain power.
Consider what we’ve accomplished with the little bit
of brain power we’ve been using since the dawn of man.
Is it so hard then to consider the possibilities of
what we could achieve?
The Law of Attraction, positive thinking or whatever
you want to call it, works on the premise that we’re
capable of determining what we have and how we live
with the power of our psychic energy.
The idea is that we’re able to direct our mental
abilities, our thoughts toward our goals and desires
and obtain them.
Granted this ability isn’t something that’s easily
obtained. Most people have spent their lives under the
impression that the world affects them. Not the other
way around.
It’s a generally held belief that if fate is
determined by us, it’s through our actions and not our
thoughts. But aren’t our thoughts the basis of our
actions?
If our thoughts cause us to act, and that action
results in obtaining our goal, can we not say our
thoughts were responsible for the results? The results
of our actions are determined by our thoughts. Whether
they’re conscious or not, our thoughts do determine
what and who we are.
The Law of Attraction helps us focus our thoughts in
positive ways to everyone’s benefit.
So you’ve just joined an online dating community. Do not be
discouraged when your prospect dates have not yet responded
to your queries.
Women members of online dating portals receive an average
of fifty to 200 queries from other members of the opposite
sex. This means she’s just taking time going through all
the queries she had received. You need to be a bit more
patient.
Have a proactive approach when it comes to online dating.
Focusing on one woman would reduce your chances of landing
a response.
Try sending messages to different women in order to bolster
the probabilities of getting a good response.
Carefully choosing your would-be dates is a good thing to
do since this would help you land the dates who have the
same interests as yours. However, don’t be too selective.
You have to try creating a unique profile when sending
messages. Make it stand out because there will be a lot of
messages for one woman from other members of the online
dating community.
Starting out with an interesting username is favorable. In
addition, read through the profiles of your intended
partners in order to incorporate a few things they like on
your own profile, but keep in mind to include just the
things you are actually interested in.
By doing so, your prospective partners will read through
your profile after receiving a query from you and end up
remembering you because of the stuff that’s on your
profile.
She may even feel that you took the time to read through
her profile and subsequently establish a connection with
her.
Be truthful about the things you put on your profile. Lying
about stuff will just ruin your entire reputation in the
online dating community.
In addition, it will be harder to correct lies whenever you
and your dates have known each other better. It would also
prevent you from enjoying while you’re on a date with the
other members of the online dating community because you’ll
be too careful to cover up all the lies you’ve told your
dates before you got to go out on a date with them.
Because our thought process is constantly working, the
Law of Attraction is constantly working as well. Many
of our thoughts are at the unconscious level, so we’re
not always aware of what type of energy those thoughts
may be creating.
According to the Law of Attraction, if you want
something enough and you truly believe it’s possible
for you to have it, you’ll probably get it. But the
same is true for negative thoughts.
If you spend a lot of time thinking on the things you
don’t want or fear, and you believe it’s possible for
you to experience them, it’s just as likely they’ll
come your way. You can’t avoid unpleasant things by
hoping they don’t happen.
Your unconscious is literal and produces negative
energy the same as it does positive energy. It doesn’t
know the difference. Your unconscious mind doesn’t
understand “I don’t want”. To truly achieve the
positive benefits of the Law of Attraction, you have
to become aware of what you’re focusing your attention
on.
Are you focusing on what you want? Or don’t want? Do
you have thoughts or beliefs that are contrary to what
you want? If you truly want something, but feel you
don’t really deserve it, those thoughts will be
translated into energy, and the Universe will “feel”
that you don’t deserve it.
Becoming aware of what you’re spending your energy on,
enables you to change it. Allowing you to focus all
your thoughts on the things you really want.
When mankind started realizing there was more to life
than just surviving, philosophy was born.
Philosophical and religious ideas began forming. About
this time, the idea that we could control our lives
with the power of our thoughts started taking hold.
And this idea has never lost its appeal or its
believers.
We are what we think. It’s a concept almost as old as
time itself. From Hinduism, Buddhism, ancient Greek
philosophers to modern day religions, this same belief
has been taught.
The name of this idea has changed over the centuries.
It seems like every other generation feels the need to
change it. They feel like it’s necessary to make the
idea something new and original in an attempt to
attract new believers.
In the last two centuries the prevailing terms have
been “positive thinking” and the “Law of Attraction“.
Both terms have had their popularity.
The Law of Attraction was brought back into popularity
with the 2006 film The Secret. Christianity has
maintained the same term for it throughout its
lifetime. Christianity teaches it as the “power of
prayer”.
Regardless of the name, the basic concept is the same.
You ask for something, truly believe (have faith) you
will get it. And last but not least is belief that you
deserve to have it.
Whatever you call it, teaching yourself to have
positive thoughts and believing you’re deserving of
good things can only result in positive gains in your
life.
If you want something, all you have to do is ask for
it. Sweeter words have never been spoken. It would be
like a dream come true. But that doesn’t mean it can’t
be true. Good things really can be yours just from
asking for them.
When you know how to ask. That’s the key. Knowing how
to ask, and knowing what to ask for. You can ask for
anything you want. But asking for a new car when you
really want a Porsche, doesn’t mean you’ll be
satisfied with just “a new car”. And just saying “I
want a Porsche” and then going on about your life as
usual probably won’t get it for you.
Focusing your thoughts on getting that new Porsche,
picturing yourself driving it, truly believing you
deserve it, and allowing it to come to you is the way
to get it.
Just asking is only the first step in the Law of
Attraction. Feeling and acting as if you’ve received
it is the second, knowing you deserve it and allowing
it to come to you is the third.
Having doubts about your worthiness produces negative
energy. Negative energy produces negative results. If
you don’t think you deserve a new Porsche, you won’t
get it. If you don’t think the Law of Attraction
works, it won’t work for you.
Positive energy is the only way to get positive
results. And positive energy is only produced by
positive thoughts.
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