The Law of Attraction basically says we can get what
we think about. Our circumstances aren’t determined by
the fickle hand of fate, but instead are shaped by our
own conscious and unconscious thoughts.
To make the Law of Attraction work for you, you have
to know what you want and ask for it. Then, go ahead
and start making plans for after you receive it.
This doesn’t mean ask for money, and then start
spending like it’s in your pocket. But make plans for
how you’re going to spend the money when it does get
here.
The hardest part for most people is to be open to
receiving it. This is where doubting you really
deserve it can prevent anything good from happening.
If you don’t think you deserve good things, they won’t
come to you.
Another problem some people have is thinking about the
things they don’t want to happen to them. The thought
fulfilling universe doesn’t understand the concept of
“I don’t want”. If you spend your time dwelling on
negative things, that’s what you’re going to get.
The Law of attraction isn’t going to solve all your
problems overnight. But if you start practicing it on
a conscious level, eventually it will become second
nature to you.
You won’t have to steer your mind to thoughts of
positive things. It will already be there. Positive
thoughts breed positive actions and reactions. Give it
an honest try and you may be pleasantly surprised.
Asking and wishing for what you want doesn’t always
mean you get it. We all learn that lesson as children.
Learning how to ask is a lesson many people never
properly learn. Knowing how to ask for what you want
can mean the difference between getting it and just
continuing to want it.
Even more important than knowing how to ask, is
knowing what you’re asking for. Understanding what you
want and the reasons you want it can give you valuable
insight to the thought process that is necessary to
achieving your desires.
Asking for riches without know what you want those
riches for may not bring you the happiness and
satisfaction you anticipated. Realizing why you want
money can help you understand what your real desire
is.
Do you want it to provide security for your family, or
because you really want the power money buys. The
goals here are different. And while obtaining one,
doesn’t necessarily mean you don’t get the other, it
also doesn’t mean you will either.
Asking for another job is good example. Why do you
want another job? Is it a second job you want? Or one
that pays more? Or are you really wanting a job that
you can enjoy doing? Not knowing why you want another
job, can lead to dissatisfaction when you get what you
asked for.
So the first step is learning yourself. Knowing what
you really want and why you want it.
There are women who avoid going out on dating adventures
with men, especially those who have bad first impressions
when it comes to dating.
For these women, here are some dating tips that may help:
1. Look good on your date.
Taking a shower isn’t enough. Wearing a nice outfit that is
comfortable for you and well suited for your date is a good
factor in looking and feeling presentable. Use some perfume
or cologne to add up to your spice. Most men can’t resist
asking women who look good on a first date for a second
one.
2. Never be late.
Sometimes, it’s okay for women to be late due to the
rituals involved when it comes to dressing up and wearing
makeup. It is fine for men to wait for a bit since this
helps men to prepare for the date and loosen up a little.
3. Be lady-like and respectable.
Let the men become gentlemen. Don’t force them to be one.
If they want to open the door for you, let them. When the
door is open, pass through first. If they pull the chair
for you, allow them to do so and thank them for the manly
act. Keep in mind to thank your date for every manly effort
he does in order to assure him that you are acknowledging
him as a gentleman.
4. Offer to pay.
It is a respectable gesture to help out on your dating
expenses. But if your date insists to pay for everything,
don’t resist.
At the end of your date, let him take you home safely. It
is up to you if you intend on giving him a goodnight kiss
as a reward for a job well done.
Good luck.
Some men may not know or do not have the slightest idea if
a woman is ready to be kissed. These men may be sitting
beside their dates talking too much they suddenly realize
how the lips of their dates are so kissable.
Their imagination will then take control, but this would
also mean disaster if done wrong. This may often leave
these men without a second chance for another date with the
woman.
If a guy finds himself talking to a girl and wondering if
she’s ready to be kissed, he may softly touch her hair and
give a compliment about it.
If the girl shows a favorable reaction, this may be a sign
of getting closer to a kiss. Get closer and try reaching
for her hair again.
Touch the hair tips and simply gaze on her lips and eyes.
The fact that she does not mind about you getting closer to
her is a sign that she is comfortable. This is a sign for a
guy to go and kiss the girl.
Some guys try to go out on an adventurous date in order to
make the kissing move more suave and natural. One
particular example is a guy who usually takes a girl to a
small boat ride on a river.
Upon sailing along the river, he happens to direct the boat
to a place covered with trees and fireflies – truly a
romantic place to kiss.
A guy can also take her date to some ancient ruins in a
local spot and manage to spend time walking until dark.
These ruins usually light up at night.
The guy can take his date to the top of the ruins where
they can see the city all beautifully lit up. This is when
the guy should make a move and kiss his date.
Blind dating is a common way for dating also. It often
occurs when someone is set up on a date through a
friend or a third party.
People are often set up on a blind date through a
friend or a co-worker who knows both parties and
believes they would make a great couple.
If you are recommended to go on a blind date by a
friend who knows you well, you might want to consider
it.
If your friend knows the other person as well as they
know you, they might be right about the two of you
connecting and getting along well together.
When you go on a blind date you might not have any
idea what the other person looks like or you might
have been shown a picture.
In all cases, the person you will be going out with
will be someone you have never met or spoke to before.
It is common to be nervous about going on a blind date
because you don’t know if the person will like you and
you don’t know if you will like the other person.
Some people really enjoy being set up on a blind date
and many blind dates turn into successful
relationships if the right people set the two of you
up.
You should try to know as much information that you
can about the person before you go and be sure your
friend knows the other person well before you go to be
sure the date will not be a disaster.
However, even if the two of you decide that you are
not a compatible couple you might meet someone who
becomes a very good friend of yours in the long run.
Usually, you shouldn’t go all out with a kiss at the end of
a first date. First date kisses mostly involve light pecks
at the cheeks or even on the lips. These kisses should only
be allowed once you feel comfortable enough with your date.
The right time to kiss is usually the most romantic moments
of the date. When you feel that you’re close enough to your
date while having fun doing a set of adventurous
activities, this might be the right time to kiss.
If you’re talking while having a quiet walk at the park and
you notice that he’s looking directly at your eyes, this is
usually another one of those right kissing moments.
Try to look at his eyes and see if he’s sincere enough to
give you a light kiss on the lips. You’ll usually feel if
it’s just the right time to kiss.
Sharing moments are usually the best times to kiss on a
date, especially if you’re talking about something
personal.
The situation doesn’t need to be dramatic and serious to
kiss. The right moment to kiss during these sharing moments
is when you feel comfortable sharing your personal
perceptions and experiences with your date.
At the end of the date, you can give him a light peck at
the cheeks if you had fun with him on your first date after
he has taken you home safe and sound.
You can give him a friendly kiss on the lips if you happen
to have fun with him again on your second date. Afterwards,
a fertile imagination is all you need when it comes to the
kisses you’ll be having on your succeeding dates.
Establishing eye contact with your date will let him know
that you are listening. Although you’re not interested in
his babbling, just look straight at him.
You’ll know when would be the right time to talk. Tell him
things about your wonderful self. Make your stories long.
If it seems that he’s not listening, maybe he is not really
interested in you.
Most men do not like silent girls. Other men do not like
very annoying and loud ones. Most men are picky, and that
is just the way they should be.
Don’t be afraid of this fact. All you have to do is speak
out and he will hear you for sure. Don’t be afraid to be
yourself while you’re out on a date with him.
Be natural yet not exaggerated. Keeping silent will make
you invisible to him. Loud mouthing will surely be annoying
for your date.
Sometimes, it’s not a bad idea to make the first move. If
you feel that your date is too shy, make the first move. It
may help him step up then take over from there. Don’t be
scared to take risks and turn it into opportunities!
Sometimes, most men can’t read signs. They might just be
inexperienced or simply stupid. On the other hand, maybe
they’re both.
They simply want the woman to come up and say a few magic
words. Now if you happen to like a man that obviously likes
you but cannot come up with the right words, make the move
and try asking him out.
It won’t hurt to try doing the first move. After all, who
does the first move doesn’t matter in times like these
since what matters most is for you to express what you
really feel for your date.
Virtual dating is a common method of dating with
people who are wired in the technology realm. This
method of dating is a system for finding possible
dates or people who you might be interested in dating.
Virtual dating uses a combined method of playing video
games and dating. People will create what is known as
avatars that are virtual figures of themselves. They
will spend time in a video game virtual world and meet
other people over the computer.
This virtual dating method allows people to talk to
potential dates through conversation and interact with
each other through a video game method.
If they decide they want to have an actual
relationship with the other person then they will move
to the next step in actually meeting by exchanging
phone numbers or setting up a location to meet.
Millions of people practice virtual dating today and
it is a preferred method by many. These people who use
these systems are usually into science fiction and
they are very good with technology.
The technology and the use of the virtual dating
system shows people using this system of dating that
they have something in common.
However, with the allowed interaction and the play
through the video game method allows people to
interact in a virtual way with people too. This can
show someone’s intellectual side, education, and more
when they work through the virtual dating systems.
Virtual dating is a common method today used by people
to meet new people and find potential candidates for
pursuing a relationship with. It is a fun way to meet
new people and allow them to get to know you without
actually meeting them until you are comfortable.
Your prince charming suddenly came up to you and asks you
out. This is a chance of a lifetime, so you said yes.
But how in the world would you know if the date would turn
out fine? You certainly wouldn’t know unless it’s over.
You notice that your prince charming is quite nervous on
your date. It looks like he had taken gallons of coffee
before the date.
It seems that long silence always gets between your
conversations. Prince charming then starts to look like he
is going to faint. This would turn out to be a bad date
unless you try helping him find his words a little.
Maybe he just needs a little push that can provide him with
the idea that you want to make this date a memorable one.
Usually, the first date involves going to movies, having
lunch, or spending dinner with a lot of sharing. Dates like
these just need a little jump-start to be more effective.
Try suggesting some activities that involve fun and
adventure.
Let your prince charming know that you are okay with him.
Try helping him get to his words or unfold his plans for
your date.
Help him by telling the stuff you want to do and the things
you want to try. Places you want to go or places you want
him to see would be very good things to tell your date if
you want to loosen him up a bit and have fun on your date.
Help your date in conquering the limitations that separate
him from you. Help him break the ice. After some time, he
may be starting to feel okay and loosen up a bit.
Afterwards, he could then start living up to your knight in
shining armor dreams.
Dutch dating means that each person will pay for
themselves when they go out on a date. This method of
dating is often the best when both parties are new to
each other, independent, or just friends.
Many people often like to go Dutch because they are
not comfortable with someone else paying for them.
This is common with women who are liberal or
independent in their thinking.
It is also common if funds are low for both parties.
Both people will split the costs of dinner and any
other activities chosen to do on the date.
They also might meet at the locations or drive
themselves so the other party isn’t responsible for
their transportation.
Dutch dating can be extremely casual and creates a
comfortable atmosphere many people are happy with when
a relationship is new.
Some people just aren’t comfortable with someone else
paying for anything for them until they get to know
them better. In addition, they don’t want to feel as
if they owe them for anything later.
Dutch allows the date to go in a successful manner
without the feelings of being ‘owed’. In addition,
many women understand the expenses associated with
dating and don’t believe it is fair that they guy
should pay for everything, especially if the two go to
an expensive restaurant and do something even more
expensive later.
Dutch dating is common for people who are not
comfortable with someone else spending money on them.
There are many liberal and independent women who are
very proud who prefer to pay their own way also. This
creates a comfortable atmosphere because no one feels
like they owe them for anything later.
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