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Three Steps to Attracting More Satisfying Relationships

By , February 2, 2017 1:55 pm

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As long as the Law of Attraction has only the ‘DON’T want’ script, it is restricted to orchestrating that script over and over.

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As long as the Law of Attraction has only the ‘DON’T want’ script, it is restricted to orchestrating that script over and over. We must give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to work with.

What do you really want in your relationships? Security? Affection? Loyalty? Companionship? Communication? What?

Do you wonder why you keep attracting certain types of people into your life?

Are you tired of feeling disappointed in ‘love?

Have you ever been ‘blind-sided’ by someone you thought was a friend?

Do you feel desperate to find that special person you can live with forever?

Here are three steps that can help you in attracting more satisfying relationships:

Step 1: Make a thorough list of all the characteristics or scenarios of your past relationships that you DON’T WANT to experience again. You can use the T-toolTM for this exercise or just take a fresh sheet of paper and draw a large ‘T’ on it.

Label the left hand column: ‘I Don’t want’ and the right-hand column, ‘I Do Want’.

Ask your Inner Self to remind you of past events that you do NOT want repeated.

Write a few words about each event that express the essence of that event.

Step 2: Examine each item on the ‘I DON’T want …” side and ask yourself this question: “If I don’t want this, what DO I want?”

One major reason why we keep attracting the same unsatisfactory relationships is because we fail to use the contrast contained in those negative events to get clear about what we DO want.

Step 3: Write a Script about how you DO want your relationships to be:

As long as the Law of Attraction has only the ‘DON’T want’ Script, it is restricted to orchestrating that Script over and over. We must give the Law of Attraction some NEW MATERIAL to work with.

Scripting accesses all four parts of the brain.

The left brain which deals with words and logic;
The right brain which understands patterns and symbols ;
The mid-brain which experiences emotions; and
The brain stem which registers physical stimulation .

When we write a Script, starting with a phrase such as: “If I had my way…”, and use our imagination about that which feels good to us, we are accessing our right and mid-brain. A thought or feeling comes and we translate it into words (using the left brain) that symbolize the thought or feeling (right brain again). Writing the Script engages the body, which registers in the brain stem.

When all four parts of the brain are engaged, a powerful message is delivered to the Universe.

I like to end my Scripts with the phrase, “And do this in ways that are for my highest good and the highest good of everyone involved.” This is a phrase that helps me let go of ‘HOW” this will all happen, and allows the Law of Attraction to bring it about in the very best possible way.

Remember, the Law of Attraction brings us precisely what we vibrate. So if we want to experience relationships that are more satisfying, then we must change our dominant vibration to match the experiences we WANT to have.

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What Good Is A Rocket That Fizzles?

By , January 1, 1970 12:00 am

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‘Rocket of Desire’ is the exhilarating emotion necessary for creating a memory that sustains our hope until the ‘rocket of desire’ becomes our reality.

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Muriel used to feel passionately about starting a business, but somewhere between grading tests and completing report cards she lost her enthusiasm.

For as long as she could remember Muriel, my coaching client, had secretly nurtured a dream to own her own business. But like many women in her age group, she had chosen a safer, more socially acceptable, occupation. She was a teacher. Now that she was close to retirement, she was beginning to realize that it might soon be possible to fulfill that hidden dream and start a new career. This time she would do something that would allow her to utilize many of her gifts and talents. She would own a business. With this rediscovered dream came strong feelings of desire and hope-powerful emotions called ‘rockets of desire.’

Like Muriel, many of us are afraid that if we don’t maintain that emotional high we won’t get our heart’s desire. What we fail to realize is that the initial ‘rocket of desire’ is only a rocket. It takes off fast and rises quickly with a flaming burst of delight. Then it descends back to earth leaving us with the memory of its brief journey and fueling our desire to ascend again.

It is this memory that motivates and sustains us to find a way to actualize the ‘rocket of desire.’ Once we have tasted the thrill of owning a business, a new automobile, a new home or vacation, once we have felt the rush of excitement and delight in our imagination, then we begin to move toward that desire.

The secret of getting your heart’s desire is to keep your attention on what you want-on that idea or goal which caused the ‘rocket of desire.’ What happens to many of us is that after the rocket has returned to earth, we begin to observe reality; the way things are now. We focus on reasons why we don’t have and probably can’t have that desired outcome and effectively put the brakes on our ‘rocket of desire’. Unless we can look beyond what is present today and picture ourselves as we want to be, we may never attain the level of belief necessary to receive the ‘rocket of desire’ as our new reality.

Muriel had come to our coaching session focused on her lack of passion. She was so worried about her waning emotions that she was not paying attention to what had shown up for her that week–a potential business partner. However, once Muriel saw this little graph and understood where she was in the process she was able to recognize the significance of meeting her potential business partner and to continue the work necessary to realize her dream.

Just like Muriel, we can get the most from our ‘rocket of desire’ by recognizing it for what it is–the exhilarating emotion necessary for creating a memory that sustains our hope until the ‘rocket of desire’ becomes our reality.

What is the Universal Law of Attraction?

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The Universal Law of Attraction states: “We attract whatever we choose to give our attention to–whether wanted or unwanted.”

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The Universal Law of Attraction states:
We attract whatever we choose to give our attention to–whether wanted or unwanted.

Most of the time, we attract by ‘default’ rather than by deliberate choice. We just sort of go through our day, focusing on problems that need to be solved or on things that did not feel good nor seem right. In so doing, we are actually creating more problems, more of what does not feel good and more of what does not seem right.

Think of yourself as a huge magnet. The kind that pulls metal to itself from afar off. It doesn’t “try” to attract, it simply does attract. It is the same way for us. Whether or not we are trying to attract, we ARE doing so all the time. (Except when we are asleep.) And we attract the likeness of what we think about. If we are thinking about a lack of something, we are attracting more lack (scarcity). If we are thinking about something we love, we are attracting more of what we love and enjoy. I know it sounds incredibly simple, and it is.

We humans are actually very powerful attractors and we can use this wonderful, god-given power to attract more of what we want in life-simply by paying attention to where we place our thoughts and desires.

An old proverb just came to my mind: “As a man thinks in his heart, so is he.” Proverbs 23:7 It’s interesting that the writer of this proverb says “thinks in his heart” because most of the time, we think that we think with our mind. However, it is truly from the heart where we do our thinking, our believing, our ‘ vibrating.’

It is from the heart that we attract. Picture your heart as a powerful magnet. The heart is the ‘ vibrator’ of all signals that attract.

Think of a radio. It has many different stations. To tune into a station you dial a specific frequency. As soon as we turn our attention to something (dialed it’s frequency) it begins its journey to us.

To be rid of something you do not want in your life, simply tune in to a different vibration (frequency or radio station)–to something that you do want.

I see the art of Deliberate Attraction as consisting of three parts:

1. Getting very clear about what it is I am wanting
2. Raising my vibration until it matches what I want
3. Allowing what I want to come to me

We have the opportunity to gain clarity in knowing precisely what we want, through the many ‘contrasts’ that life offers us. The key to successfully using contrast is to observe it briefly and use it to help you decided what you do want. This takes a little practice, since our habit is to talk about, tell others about and focus on what we did not like.

It is usually part three that trips me up. I have held onto some self-limiting beliefs for a very long time-so long that I no longer recognize them, yet they are still vibrating below the surface, canceling out what I am wanting.

My work is to let go of all resistance and believe that what I am wanting will come to me–simply because I want it.

Law of Attraction ?How to be a Match for What You Want

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Most people repel the things they want without being aware of it. One simple shift in their way of being can alter the state of things that they want by drawing it towards themselves as apposed to repelling it.

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The law of Attraction is a very sensitive and tricky law to put into practice. When you don’t understand how it works it can be quite a struggle to what you deeply want. However when you understand that everything about the law of attraction starts with yourself first then the rewards can be outstanding.

Wanting is not the only thing it takes for you to have. Your wanting can actually repel the things you want from coming to you. So how do you become a match for the things you want without repelling them?

How do you Feel?

Your feelings are a very great indication of what you will attract. How often do you have thoughts about the things you deeply want but also felt scared about actually having those things? Maybe you may have felt scared and worried about the possibility of not being able to get what you desired. Those feelings of fear, actually repels what you want away from you. You loose your magnetic power when you feel fearful or worried or even needy.

Fearful feelings can only mean that you are not a match because when you are truly a match for what you want. You feel that it is already yours because you understand the deeper aspect of how the universe works and you are in a state of knowledge, trust and faith.

Lack of knowledge breads fear, worry and doubt, all of which actually kills your chances of attracting what you deeply desire. To be a match for what you want you must feel that it is already yours. You must feel good about it, you must feel deserving of it.

Those who are wealthy and successful with the law of attraction dive deeply into the knowledge and study deeply all aspects of it until they master it. The more knowledge you have of how the laws of attraction work the better able you become at making it work.

The more you are in contact with the teachings of the universal laws the more confident you become in learning how they work, why they work and when they work. Positive and negative thoughts alone do not make you a master of the laws of attraction.

How ugly has society made you?

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With media creating hype twenty four seven, and the pressure that we face on that same timeline to always look our best, it’s no doubt that their is soo many ‘after-market’ ways to make ourselves look better.

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With media creating hype twenty four seven, and the pressure that we face on that same timeline to always look our best, it’s no doubt that their is soo many ‘after-market’ ways to make ourselves look better.

We’ve been made to look one way, in the image of our creators (thanks mom & dad); inyet we find ourselves looking to enlarge or reduce parts of our body, change the color of our skin and eyes, among heaps of others modifications just to fit into what society deems to be desirable. You would be hard pressed to find someone that hasn’t been caught up in this meaningless cycle at one point in their life. I’m been in it, heck – I still am in it. I think their is a fine line to be walked with taking pride in the way that you look, without becoming obsessed with it. Wear respectable clothes, brush your teeth, maybe do your hair every once in a while, and for goodness sakes a daily shower, whether you need it or not, goes a long way.

There is soo many different treatments and surgeries out there today, that I think it’s easy for us to overlook how ugly society is really making us. Here is how I’m looking at:

– Conservative – Keeping good hygiene through daily showers, deodorant,etc.
– Riding the line – Getting hair removed by lasers to avoid having to shave excessively
– Extreme – Different surgeries both cosmetic and not

It’s when you are debating getting into the extreme side, that I think you need to step back and think twice to yourself about: “How ugly has society made me”. If you’re willing to go under a knife to change the way you look, society has done something ugly with the beautiful baby that your parents first brought into this world. It’s essential to always have a level head on yourself, and to love yourself for the way that you are. It’s overwhelming the number of people that think that make-up and surgeries,etc are going to change their life. Insecurity and lack of confidence shines through though, and you are still the same on the inside. Beauty is from the inside out!

Manifesting Your Desires

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I could make it very easy from the start and say that you are already manifesting your desires everyday, but you just don’t realize it. Most people are unconscious creators.

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I could make it very easy from the start and say that you are already manifesting your desires everyday, but you just don’t realize it. Most people are unconscious creators. They go about their daily lives not knowing that the thoughts they are thinking have an impact on their outside world. The Law Of Attraction, probably the most important law governing creation states that all forms of matter and energy are attracted to that which is of like vibration. What this means is that the thoughts we hold in our minds begin to attract similar thoughts and become larger masses of thoughts we call thought forms.

So what are the implications of this for you? Stated simply, you get what you focus on. “But I’m always thinking about money and i never have any,” you say. And that is because you never stay focused on the abundance in your life, but are always looking at the lack of what you do have. So that is what you attract into your life. If you could stay focused on one thing and imagined the excitement you would feel if you already had it, it would show up in your life in a relatively short time.

The world you see is only a mirror of all the thoughts you have inside of you. Change your thoughts and you change the perception of your world. Quantum physics teaches us that nothing exists independently of your perception of it. In actuality you get to choose what you see. That is why several people observing the same thing each have different opinions as to what really happened.

If you want to manifest your desires there are a few steps you need to follow. Number one in importance is knowing what you really want. The more definitive you can be, the easier it will be to reach your goal. Number two in importance is the more enthused, excited and emotionally charged you are about something, the faster you will see it show up in your life. Next, you have to allow it to come into your life. What i mean by this is not to expect it to come in a certain way, the when, where or how. Just let it flow into your life. And lastly, you should have a feeling of gratitude, or thankfulness in advance, to be grateful before and for the thing that you want.

Good luck in your manifesting and thanks for reading.

Use the Law of Attraction to Manifest Outstanding Results

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How joyful could you allow yourself to be? How much more magical could your application of the law of attraction be? Read on to learn more.

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If you have gone about your life feeling frustrated, angry and stuck you can transform this lower feelings and move into an outrageous state of joy and hopefulness and begin to attract greater circumstances.

The law of attraction states that like attracts like. That simply means if you are feeling stuck and hopeless you will continue to attract more circumstances that bring about hopelessness.

One of the fastest ways to get the law of attraction to work for you is to take a period of time and do nothing more than find the things which bring you outrageous joy. Forget about wanting a new car or more money. Focus most on being joyful.

1) Make a list of all the things which make you completely happy. Then go out and do it. See if you can fill an entire week of your free time with activities that are fun and emotionally rewarding to you.

2) Get a journal ?Every night before bed write out your feels about the way you spent your day. Make a point to express how you felt. Your feelings are extremely important because they inform the law of attraction as to your present vibration.

3) Each day search out activities that you may have wished to try but never got around to doing them. The more new and fun activities that you engage in the more expanded you will feel. You will naturally move into a higher more expanded state. New activities open up your inner being much more than activities that you have become too familiar with. When you are in a new environment you easily move into a more aware and open state.

By the end of the week you will be a change in your own personal energy. Now you can begin to think more about what you would like to manifest in your life. Be clear about your desire and allow the law of attraction to go to work to do wonders in brining about your desires.

To best apply the law of attraction you should be in a state of joy and openness. As you go through your daily activities you may not be aware of it but you do shut down. Everything becomes routine and you easily hold on to old thought patterns.

As you change your routine and open up you begin to see some amazing changes and your ability to master the law of attraction techniques will be greatly enhanced.

Sarah Meets Wayne Gretzky – And A Lifelong Dream Is Fulfilled

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A true story about how the Law of Attraction brought the Hero of a ‘special’ girl to the same city she lives in.

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Sarah is so excited! Her whole body is jiggling up and down as she tells me, “Wayne Gretzky and Janet came right up to me. I told Janet I saw her in a movie while ‘The Great One’ gave me his autograph.” I’m excited for Sarah! As her mother, I know that she has just received a lifelong dream–to get ‘up close and personal’ with her hero.

Sarah is my special daughter. When she was born, almost 25 years ago, the doctors told me she would never be able to live on her own. They said she was retarded and would not be able to do many of the things most people take for granted. Indeed, she has Down’s syndrome, but the doctors were way off about her capabilities. She is a very independent young woman, has a job that pays ‘real money’, lives on her own and decorates her apartment to suit her tastes–with life-size Wayne Gretzky posters, two autographed photos, a huge LA Kings banner that she bought when he was with that team and tons of other Gretzky paraphernalia.

She has been a faithful fan of ‘number 99’. She followed him from Edmonton, to LA to where ever her ‘guy’ was playing–glued to the TV during playoffs and proud each time his team won the Stanley Cup. She has made scrapbooks and written letters to let him know that she thinks he is the BEST!

So, is it any wonder that the Law of Attraction brought Wayne Gretzky to Victoria, BC? We first realized he was in town one Saturday night, when we read in the newspaper that he had played golf in a celebrity tournament. “Too bad we didn’t realize Wayne would be in Victoria,” I lamented, as we poured over the photo of him swinging his golf club. We both assumed we had missed a golden opportunity to see him in person.

But the next morning, as I walked through the Inner Harbor, I noticed an abundance of expensive cars and limos waiting in front of the Empress Hotel. It took me a couple of minutes to figure it out–that the vehicles were waiting to take all the celebrities to the airport–but once I did, I knew exactly what action to take.

Using my cell phone, I called Sarah and told her, “If you want to see Wayne Gretzky, throw on some clothes and ride your bike down here as fast as you can. And bring paper and pen to get his autograph.” I continued walking to my destination–saying a little prayer, “Please, keep Wayne from leaving until Sarah can get there.” I’m sure she was ‘flying’ as fast as she could pedal.

Later she told me that Wayne and his family came out of the Empress Hotel right at the same moment she arrived on her bike. He was working the crowd and walked right up to her, asked her name, signed his autograph while Sarah made mention of Janet’s part in a movie.

I asked her, “Sarah, was it as good has you had imagined? Or better?”

“Better,” she grinned. “Much better than I ever imagined.”

You know, if the Universe would go to such lengths to satisfy Sarah’s lifelong wish, then NOTHING is too difficult. There is no dream or hope or desire that cannot be fulfilled.

Law of Attraction ?Attraction with Rituals and Mind Power

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Rituals are an important aspect of truly application of the laws of attraction. Without the full knowledge of the inner mind and the rituals necessary to the practice your results will be less than fruitful.

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Rituals are an important part of the manifesting process. Those who are greatly successful with applying the law of attraction understand that there is a sacred method to it. You perform rituals all the time, every day you have a set schedule in which you get up at a particular time and drive to work or catch the bus or train. When you brush your teeth that is a form of ritual.

To successful apply the laws of attraction you need to great a steady ritual of learning and manifesting practices. Without those rituals you are only skimming the surface of the attraction process. Pasting pictures around your home is merely goal setting. Your mind sees those pictures and you are reminded of what you want to attract but it is the rituals that allow the law of attraction to help you in manifesting what you want faster.

Rituals Connect You to Your Source

As you go about your day you continue to activate the law of attraction and what you get is more and more of what you are already living. Have you ever notice that few people ever really change their lives. Few people ever really manifest true abundance in their lives because they hold on to a ritual that has not changed. The law of attraction is a powerful tool. Use it with the correct ritual and you can have an outstanding life of abundance, ignore it and your life will be a repeat of what you are now experiencing.

When you use a good ritual with the law of attract you begin to move mountains and manifest what you desire a whole lot faster than you could ever have imagined. With each practice of the ritual you become a more powerful manifesting magnet. What you can comes easily and faster again and again.

The ritual trains you and connects you to the creative source that is necessary to manifesting.

The Mind is Like a Wild Horse

The human mind is like a wild horse and without proper training it can be a weapon used against yourself. This is where rituals help in training the mind so that you can best use the law of attraction to gain success.

To fully succeed with the law of attraction you need to learn the secrets of the inner mind and how to tame the mind to bring you what you desire to manifest in your life. Every spiritual teacher who understands the laws of attracts teach the necessity of learning the power of the inner mind. Law of attraction without the training of the mind is quite wasteful. It is like having a box of matches but never knowing what fire is or how to use it.

There is Value in Ancient Practices

Many law of attraction teachings may seem to esoteric for most people but really there is nothing scary or other worldly about them if you take the time to understand the science behind them. Many of these practices actually make the laws of attraction a lot easier to apply and your success rate even more outstanding.

If you have always don’t what you have been doing chances are you will always attract what you have been attracting. However if you learn to dive into the unknown you can begin to manifest greater results. The mind is the kingdom to manifesting and the law of attraction follows the mind.

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