Making Dates More Enjoyable and Fun

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By , November 26, 2022 3:59 am

Most people are usually nervous when it comes to their
first dates. This can make you look like someone who had
taken gallons of coffee before the date.

Long silence is always between your conversations with your
date, and you are hoping to come up with a few funny lines
that can crack the ice.

But sometimes, you’re too late because your date has
decided to spend her time with someone else.

Usually, first dates are spent in places where you can sit
and talk with your date in order to know each other better.

Some go to the movies, have some coffee at the local coffee
house, or dine in an expensive restaurant so as to impress
their dates.

Dates like these just need a little jump-start to be more
effective. Try adding some adventure or do a set of
enjoyable activities together in order to have fun with
your dates.

Some men take their dates to an adventurous place. They go
to a few local destinations or historical places within the
area. They go around these places whilst having so much to
see and many things to talk about. These are times when you
don’t need a funny line to break the silence.

In case of rain, you can’t go out and have a walk at the
local park or other outdoor spots conducive for talking and
knowing each other better.

On the brighter side of things, you can go indoors. Try
some shopping malls. There, you can find a wide variety of
places to have some coffee.

Drinking coffee doesn’t take four hours or so of sitting
and doing nothing since you can talk to your date and get
to know her better.

After some time, try inviting your date for a walk at the
mall. Go shop for small things with her such as clothes and
CDs.

Save some time to go bowling, play video games, or find a
bookstore to share your interests with her. The main idea
is to interact with your date in order to know her better.

This will surely provide you with a means to bolster your
chances of landing a date that can lead to love and romance
in the long run.

With this in mind, go and check out places near you for fun
activities you and your date will surely enjoy.

Positive Thinking

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By , November 22, 2022 9:01 pm

Because our thought process is constantly working, the
Law of Attraction is constantly working as well. Many
of our thoughts are at the unconscious level, so we’re
not always aware of what type of energy those thoughts
may be creating.

According to the Law of Attraction, if you want
something enough and you truly believe it’s possible
for you to have it, you’ll probably get it. But the
same is true for negative thoughts.

If you spend a lot of time thinking on the things you
don’t want or fear, and you believe it’s possible for
you to experience them, it’s just as likely they’ll
come your way. You can’t avoid unpleasant things by
hoping they don’t happen.

Your unconscious is literal and produces negative
energy the same as it does positive energy. It doesn’t
know the difference. Your unconscious mind doesn’t
understand “I don’t want”. To truly achieve the
positive benefits of the Law of Attraction, you have
to become aware of what you’re focusing your attention
on.

Are you focusing on what you want? Or don’t want? Do
you have thoughts or beliefs that are contrary to what
you want? If you truly want something, but feel you
don’t really deserve it, those thoughts will be
translated into energy, and the Universe will “feel”
that you don’t deserve it.

Becoming aware of what you’re spending your energy on,
enables you to change it. Allowing you to focus all
your thoughts on the things you really want.

A Philosophy to Increase Your Self Confidence

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By , November 19, 2022 1:41 pm

Everyone takes pride with all the things that we posses. May it be the achievements that we had, or the present living that we were able to produce, each one of us has become an achiever on our own.

Many of us may have denied this truth though. But you see, it is obvious- everybody is capable of doing anything only if we give our hearts into it and we set our minds in doing it. No one is deprived of the capacity to enjoy life’s successes. Only those who deprive themselves of these gifts are the sufferers. Are you among them?

Leave your answer hanging then whisper it to yourself. Whatever the output is, see to it that you would change things for the better.

If you can say that you are confident enough then good! But don’t settle yourself with what’s enough. There will always be gaps and you should cease the opportunities for improvement.

If, however, you answered no then don’t tarry. Wasting your life to senseless whimpers of negativism would obviously cause you to regret everything at the every moment you depart.

How painful it would be to know that you were equipped with everything you need to achieve but dared not use them.

There was once a young eagle who happened to be raised in village of chickens. He was oriented to chicken living and was raised to believe that he is one of them. For long, he has been watching the eagles hover in mid air with their display of magnificence.

For each time that he stands in awe of these airborne eagles, he wishes that he was born like them. He dared not to spread his wings though yet everyday, his heart cries for soaring the heights eagles soar. He failed to discover his potentials and real self and thus, he died a chicken- ever longing to become one of those to which he truly belongs.

Every one of us is an eagle. We are all capable of flying to the maximum of our potentials. Unless we spread our wings and dare to discover our real self, we will forever be bounded by our failure to transcend heights and become the real people that we were meant to become.

Now, if we would only realize the eagle that is sleeping within us then we could have all lived a life of happiness and contentment.

We were all born entitled with achievements and successes. The Universe is too good for us that she took time to secure everything that we would need to soar. Don’t waste this very opportunity by putting loads in your back so you would be delimited and thus, incapable of flying.

Be like an eagle who has unearthed himself from the mud of being a chicken. Chickens are meant for slaughter. In the same way, if we choose to be chickens then we would have to accept the reality that our purpose would be defeated. That is, to give glory to the Universe who has kept us in her arms and fed us with everything we needed.

Be like an eagle and live a life free from the damaging culture of the chickens. Be like an eagle and make yourself benefit from the confidence you can get from being a mighty creature.

Making The Law Of Attraction Work For You

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By , November 16, 2022 7:29 am

If you want something, all you have to do is ask for
it. Sweeter words have never been spoken. It would be
like a dream come true. But that doesn’t mean it can’t
be true. Good things really can be yours just from
asking for them.

When you know how to ask. That’s the key. Knowing how
to ask, and knowing what to ask for. You can ask for
anything you want. But asking for a new car when you
really want a Porsche, doesn’t mean you’ll be
satisfied with just “a new car”. And just saying “I
want a Porsche” and then going on about your life as
usual probably won’t get it for you.

Focusing your thoughts on getting that new Porsche,
picturing yourself driving it, truly believing you
deserve it, and allowing it to come to you is the way
to get it.

Just asking is only the first step in the Law of
Attraction. Feeling and acting as if you’ve received
it is the second, knowing you deserve it and allowing
it to come to you is the third.

Having doubts about your worthiness produces negative
energy. Negative energy produces negative results. If
you don’t think you deserve a new Porsche, you won’t
get it. If you don’t think the Law of Attraction
works, it won’t work for you.

Positive energy is the only way to get positive
results. And positive energy is only produced by
positive thoughts.

A Step in Building Your Self Confidence

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By , November 12, 2022 11:57 pm

Everything has to start somewhere. Unless you start revamping your self confidence, you will have to agonize endlessly with the very thing you are fearful of- low self confidence.

Our self confidence is the accumulation of all our reactions to the experiences that life brought us, the manner by which we were guided by the older people in our environment and how we and the society view us. Many factors are contributors to our personal understanding of confidence.

One determining factor is how well we expect ourselves and the circumstances of our lives should be. Many tend to fall into the trap of creating unrealistic expectations. In the process, their losses are becoming too painful that they eventually suffer the effects of creating lower self confidence. Others, on the other hand, lean more on playing safe and thus create more achievable goals that are easier to attain. And because achievements add largely to the development of self confidence, these people benefit from knowing that they are somehow capable of doing something.

You may already have heard the phrase- “its all in the mind”. And to many psychological and emotional conditions, we can actually say that everything is all in the mind. They rooted and develop from the mind and so, the antidote might as well come from the same source.

You can always condition yourself to feel the way you want or to feel the way you don’t want. You can suppress emotions and in the process, help emotions materialize. Say you want to feel hatred of yourself over not being good enough. If you make yourself believe in that hatred and you truly are convinced that you are not good enough, you will only get two products- one, genuine hatred and two, lower self esteem.

The majority of us are caught unaware with our words. We sometimes fail to check ourselves of the things we are registering in our subconscious mind.

You may not have deliberately said it recently but since you are used to hearing yourself mumble- “I am a looser”, or “I’m not worthy of anything”, your subconscious self might as well believe that these are the facts.

Even now as we speak, many out there believe in these statements.

They are not mere words. They are for real and they will actually dig deep in your subconscious mind, which will then be integrated into your being. If you believe in these then there is no way that you won’t believe in their direct opposite.

Central to building self confidence is one’s belief in himself. Whatever you set your mind to believe will all be taken as factual. Thus, you only have to manipulate the values that you would like to acquire. Otherwise, no amount of waiting can make you change. The motivation must come from you. Suggestions may come from outward sources but in the end, it will be you and yourself that will set out to do the battle.

Changes must begin from you. You may start with talking to yourself using positive statements like “you are great” (for you truly are a great individual waiting for your talents to be tapped). Or “you are beautiful” (because believe in this or not each one of us were created beautifully to give glory to our Maker).

You cant stay long in your madness over having low self confidence. Somehow, you have to change your perspectives and live a different life that looks forward to better things.

Online Dating Tips for Women

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By , November 9, 2022 5:06 pm

Women in search for a knight in shining armor in real life
dating should not lower her standards while searching
online.

She should keep her dream of having a prince charming to
the rescue. But having big dreams does not mean being too
selective.

Women should be selective but they should not limit their
options exactly to their ideal man. Limiting your options
will decrease the possibility of having a good catch.

Create an interesting profile. This is one way to attract
your prince charming. The content of your profile should be
honest and true if you are looking for someone who’ll be
you’re partner for a long and intimate relationship.

Thus, put something on your profile that can make a good
first impression. This impression should also last a
lifetime. Keep in mind to upload a photo with your most
attractive smile.

Avoid overly sexual photos – upload sexy photos, but limit
it to PG13 viewing.

Let’s include your safety. Make sure your common sense is
working well. Do not give your personal home address to
your online date. If you plan to meet up somewhere, have
someone to accompany you or know about your plans.

If uneasiness is felt while being with your date, you have
the right to stop and cut all contact off between the both
of you. It is better to be safe than sorry.

Online dating is a rapidly growing activity. Better hurry
and carry on these tips to start your wonderful search for
your partner.

Speed dating, a new fad to watch

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By , November 6, 2022 10:04 am

With people too busy to go around the social scenes and meet new people, more and more innovative ideas on dating are being conceptualized. One of the newest ways to meet new people and possibly meet a new love is through speed dating.

Although the concept is actually not so new anymore in western countries, having been practiced for years now; it is enjoying popularity just now. Perhaps, this is because the idea of speed dating is more viable and much more needed now than before.

Speed dating, to those who are still clueless about the system, is a matchmaking process wherein people will meet and have a chance to talk for a short period of time. Often, people who join speed dating events are those who are also on the lookout for potential partners and relationships. This way, all people in the event know that everybody is serious about the dating process.

History speaking

Speed dating has its origins in the idea of Rabbi Yaacov Deyo of Aish HaTorah. He devised this way of dating for Jewish singles to meet each other and bond when in large cities such as New York where non-jews outnumber them. In fact, speeddating as a single word is a trademark that Aish has been using for his projects. The two-word speed dating phrase is a term used for other events with similar slant.

The first ever speed dating event happened in Beverly Hills in the late 1998. Because of good reviews, it became a commercial success and rapidly spread all throughout the United States. By the turn of he millennium, speed dating has become a by word in social circles especially after being portrayed in glamour shows like Sex and the City.

The process of speed dating

Speed dating start off with men and women on each side of the room. Each of these people will be given the chance to talk to the every member of the opposite sex in a series of short minute dates where they can talk about anything they want.

Often, the short dates will last from about three minutes to eight minutes depending on the organizer of the speed dating. These minutes are neither short nor long for people. Remember that you have to also take into consideration the discomfort that people who barely know each other will feel when forced to talk to each other. During the small talks, no one is allowed to give any numbers or other information apart from the names and other things that are not so personal.

After everyone has talked to everybody, the organizers will then ask the participants to submit to the organizers the list of people that they really like and would like to get to know more. These people are the ones they consent to give their number to. If the person one wants to get to know, also wants to get to know them, a match is made. Numbers will then be given to each one and it is up to them to set up their own dates so that they can get to know each other.

Speed dating, however is not done for free and to ensure that everybody in the event is legitimate, preregistration is encouraged. However, there are event organizers who allow walk ins to join the party. When you go to these events, make sure that the organizers are already established.

What To Do When You Need to Boost Your Self Confidence

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By , November 3, 2022 2:44 am

Small differences make great changes.

It all boils down in a singe idea that would recreate your self image. Remember when you were so confident of having done something then someone commented on how bad things went? Remember when you were struggling to finish your work satisfactorily when someone said you would never make it to promotion? Remember when you set out to run a mile and people scrutinized you for having such goal? Remember all those times. They all rooted from pessimistic commentaries that were of no use but to destroy the positive spirit in you that says ” you can”.

Self confidence lies near to positive thinking. If you think positively of yourself and take stock of all positive attributes you have while considering the worth of those you lack then you can atleast make yourself believe that you can actually do and can make things happen.

Positive thinking is not being overly hopeful of something that is unachievable. Central to boosting self confidence and positive thinking is the setting of realistic goals that you can reach for while not delimiting your capacities.

Normally when we set out to do something we tend to over calculate things and plan to achieve things beyond our present reach. This, we say, would encourage us to work double time. But the point we are missing is that once we fail our expectations and the expectations of the crowd that is watching us, we will be discouraged to try things again.

You see, on our initial tries it is not bad if we would set achievable goals rather than confidence boosting-unrealistic goals that would leave us dismayed.

When you really need to feel good about yourself, remember that self confidence is largely controlled by the hormonal balance in our body. Thus, you can alter your mood by stimulating yourself to do so. Say, if you have this vivid memory of having been able to achieve something or you once had “cheerleaders” who pushed you to achieving greater things, you can surely use them to manipulate your emotions. If not, then remember the moments when you really felt happy about yourself. Controlling the reins of your moods and emotions can contribute to your over all confidence.

At one point of our lives, we all have been our own critics. Undue criticisms don’t only make us vulnerable to negative thoughts, they also affect our over all personal perspectives.

Have you noticed how we criticize ourselves without even realizing that we cant utter those very things to other people? We are harsher to ourselves than we can imagine. Thus, with every negative input we receive from this critic, we are left upset and unconfident. It is like tearing the walls that we have built for long in exchange for a few unjust remarks that we rarely need.

Avoid using sweeping statements about yourself because these are the very things that would eventually strip you off your good self image. Recreating the comments you give to yourself will have a huge impact on your self confidence.

In the end, destruction comes from within us. Other people may argue that we are affected by external pessimism. True, yet this would only affect us once we allow entry towards ourselves. Thus, you only have to create barriers from negative inputs while strengthening your underlying foundations.

A Course in Building Confidence and Self esteem

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By , October 30, 2022 7:40 pm

Optimism! It all lies in our positive perception of our personality, the events occurring around us and life itself. So long as we believe in the goodness that we may have in life, we are bound to enjoy it the way every man should.

Unfortunately, many of us cannot grasp optimism from a life that is muddled with miseries, morbidity, and struggles. Of course, life’s pleasure would not be appreciated if it were not equaled with unhappiness. Pain cannot be felt if all we know is joy. Tears would lose its worth if we always experience happiness. Confidence would not be recognized if we do not fall flat on our face sometimes.

Life is a gratifying privilege and we can make everything we want from it. We have to start early in building our foundations so that we wont have to loose precious moments that shall never pass by us again. A moment that’s gone is gone forever but your light won’t even lose its value long after you have gone.

With optimism in life we would be able to recognize the fullness of our potentials. Everyone has an equal chance for recognition yet many of us fail to share with the limelight because we surrender even before the battle begun.

If you would want to share with what the world offers, you must be brave enough. Nothing should stop your from living your life, not even the miserable demons of low self confidence.

Those who braved life are those who are confident enough of themselves. Sometimes, we just have to take risks so that we might discover what lies in our road. Taking risks though requires lots of faith in yourself. Without this, you would be like a warrior who has lost his armor.

From birth, we were equipped with all the skills that we will use in the later stages of our lives. One such skill is the ability to face challenges and to face them with faith, both in ourselves and to Him who has created all of us.

All of us had an equal chance to develop our sense of self, even when it feels like our fellow is much blessed than us.

We normally have the common notion that life is unfair when in fact, it is not. We all have our shares of blessing and our shares of challenges. It just lies in our perception of things and the manner by which we handle things.

The same thing goes with self confidence and self esteem. Many of us think that the man we are looking up to shared much of life’s blessings because he can bear himself better, he can face the public better and he is much eloquent and more confident than most of us. Remember that before he even got there, he ahs to face challenges that contributed to his self-esteem and self confidence. All of us can be that man, only if we believe in ourselves enough.

We just have to find our own enlightenment to be able to achieve the building of good foundations for our self esteem and self confidence. Changes must come from within before we can accept the assistance that comes from outside. Realization of how valuable you are and how beautifully you were created cannot be helped by outside reinforcement if you, yourself do not want to accept this one simple truth.

Go on, help in the discovery of yourself and that is among the most wonderful venture you will take in life.

Montreal’s Dating Scene

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By , October 27, 2022 12:33 pm

The hottest trend in Montreal dating is not the clothes, not the clubs, nor a restaurant. Its speed dating. Speed dating has captured the imagination of not only the singles of Montreal but singles around the world.

Speed dating parties or events have started sprouting all over Montreal. Some have been organized by individuals while others were arranged by organizations or companies that offer various dating services.

Speed dating in Montreal is basically the same as speed dating anywhere. Variations may occur but the basic principle is intact. Participants of speed dating events will go on a round-robin dating wherein they will be allowed to meet and talk to everyone of the opposite sex for an average of 3 to 8 minutes.

Normally, speed dating events only cater to 25 or less partners in a single event. Anything in excess of that might be a little difficult to handle. Nevertheless, some do offer a large speed dating gathering and it might increase your chance of finding a match in such large events.

In speed dating first impression matters the most. In the very short time that you’ll be talking with your potential date, you’ll have a chance to evaluate his/her looks, voice, demeanor, accent, the way they dress, their self confidence and self esteem. In the less the 10 minutes, you’ll also be able to get a short background information about your partner and if you’re good in asking question, you might even get a chance to squeeze out a little bit more of personal information.

In Montreal, dating sessions are held from bars to restaurants. Events can also be a little formal or can be quite a party. It all depends on the organizers and the specific group attending the event. Events can be personalized catering to a specific age group, religious affiliation, work background, hobbies and interests, or particular or peculiar preferences. Such events are designed to increase the participant’s chances of finding their match.

During speed dating gathering, you’ll find the participants sitting across each other with a table in between. Some events arrange partners with considerable distance from each other for a little privacy while others have a long table where participants change partners by moving in a counter or clockwise direction at the sound of the organizer’s bell or ring.

Exchanging or giving of contact information during the speed dating is not allowed. Usually, you inform the organizers or their automatic online dating system which ones you prefer to have a date. Then the system or the organizer finds if there’s any possible match. They will then inform you of your match or matches and then it’s out of their hands.

Once you’ve been given the contact information, it’s up to you to make the moves and set up a real date. The speed dating organizers are only there to point you to the right direction it’s up to you to find the means to get there.

Montreal seems to be among the places where speed dating has become a full blown industry. You’ll find a number of websites that cater to the needs of that particular market: Montreal singles looking for dates.

Web directories, advertisements in the internet, billboards, newspapers and television showcase various dating services each have their own claims to success. Even if speed dating is relatively cheaper than conventional dating, it still would be best to think about it carefully.

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